Whitehorse man meant the world to partner
"He was a very strong person.”
By Christopher Reynolds on March 14, 2014
"He was a very strong person.”
Denis Chabot, the 34-year-old Whitehorse tire mechanic who was crushed under a semi truck he was servicing in November 2011, took with him a wealth of qualities that cold autumn afternoon, his former partner told the Star recently.
"He was hard-working, he was dedicated,” Kristy Lerch said in an interview.
"How do you put it into words?”
Lerch, a Whitehorse physiotherapist, recalled Chabot's simultaneous stoicism and warm-heartedness, his self-deprecating prankishness and commitment to self-improvement and his love of the outdoors, loyalty and poetry-laced romantic side.
"I think his sense of humour was the first thing I really liked,” Lerch said.
"He said to his friend, "Yeah, I met this girl and she laughs at my jokes.' And they're like, ‘She laughs at your jokes? She really likes you....'”
Chabot, originally from Sherbrooke in the Eastern Townships of Quebec, shared Lerch's passion for exploring the Yukon landscape.
"He was a natural climber,” she said. "I'm not a natural anything.”
On their first date in February 2011, Chabot introduced Lerch to the trails around Dewey Lake near Skagway, nestled among glacial peaks and snow-encrusted valleys.
"There was five feet of snow on the trail. It took hours,” Lerch said.
"Maybe not the greatest first date....”
It worked out nonetheless. She took him to plays and concerts in Whitehorse and opened the door to the local arts scene, "especially the Guild (Hall) — he really liked it.”
He brought out her adventurous side, hiking and skiing with her weekly during the winter.
On top of his playfulness — he often emailed Lerch goofy photos, like one of himself shortly before he died with half a grapefruit atop him, mimicking a head lump — Chabot held a serious attitude toward his work at Integra Tire.
"He was focused on doing a good job at work, he was focused on being the best person he could be,” Lerch said.
A passion for self-improvement was evident in emails he sent Lerch about performance. They reveal even an A-grade on a June 2011 training exam wasn't good enough for him.
"Finished my test around 2 p.m.: 85 per cent. Same old thing that I keep getting wrong so I copied my failed chapter in a file and sent it to my email so I will be finally able to study my wrong answers,” Chabot wrote.
Integra Tire co-owner Paul Bubiak testified to Chabot's work ethic in territorial court during the trial, which saw him and his company as well as North 60 Petro and its supervisor Frank Taylor accused of breaching workplace safety law.
"Denis loved to work on the trucks,” Bubiak told the courtroom last December during the three-week hearing.
"He was one of the most competent people we had for that job.”
Chabot was often more than willing to go out on service calls to assist truck drivers in trouble hundreds of kilometres from Whitehorse, Bubiak added.
A territorial court judge ruled in January that Integra Tire, North 60 Petro and Frank Taylor each violated training and safety standards in a collective failure that contributed to Chabot's death.
Lerch said he, like any human being, had his faults.
"I don't want to say he's perfect .... He could be stubborn and he had his opinions and he had a temper just like I did ... but we never yelled at each other,” she said.
"He was a very passionate and emotional person, and I think that's one of the things I liked about him, because I could be the same way.”
Lerch added that he had overcome difficult childhood experiences to flourish in a new environment: "I think one of the things I respected about him the most was that he'd been through some hard times from a young age.”
The couple knew each other for a about a year before he died.
Lerch, originally from Calgary, moved north from Edmonton in September 2011, having met Chabot at the Bees Knees hostel downtown in the fall of 2010.
"He was so self-deprecating, but really funny.”
Though she initially put him on the "permanent friends list” in her mind, the two became a couple in February 2011.
"Within a month, we both knew,” she said. "He was asking me little questions like where he wants me to marry him.
"When you have that kind of relationship where you're committed to it, and you can resolve conflict reasonably, and every time you do it's stronger because of it — when you have someone like that, it's valuable.
"I want to say it's worth more than gold — but, you know, gold's not worth that much these days,” Lerch added, laughing.
Lerch shared a poem Chabot wrote to her in 2011:
"You are my pretty crocus, appearing in my life after a long period of sleep .... Contemplate the first view, the feeling of comfort after a long period of cold.
"I admire her strength and her tenacity, just her presence reanimates in me my hopes and desires. I don't wish to cage you because you are not mine, although I am yours. I long to be in your presence and look forward to discovering the cycle of the seasons together,” the poem reads.
"I think that, not just for me and his family, but for the whole community it's a huge loss that he died.
"And I know for me, I was devastated.”
On Nov. 15, 2011, the Kenworth semi-truck Chabot had been working on at Integra Tire ran over him, killing him almost instantly.
The tire technician had been putting slits in the tires of the semi truck — siping — to give it better traction on ice and snow. After completing the work, he told Bubiak the tri-axle vehicle was ready for pick up.
Chabot said he would do a final check on the truck before the owner came by for it. When an employee arrived from North 60, he found the vehicle idling, climbed into it and drove out of the garage.
Chabot was partially under the truck and suffered fatal injuries when it moved.
The driver saw what had happened only when he looked in the rearview mirror and noticed Chabot lying on the ground.
Lerch did not find out about the tragedy until later that evening, having gone out for errands.
Several Integra Tire workers arrived at her doorstep that night.
One of them was "sobbing and he just kept saying, ‘He didn't make it, he didn't make it,'” she recalled.
She went to the Whitehorse General Hospital that evening but was not allowed to see him. So she phoned the coroner and said: "I never had a chance to say goodbye.”
Lerch expressed gratitude to a nurse who attended to her deceased partner for hours so that she could see him.
"When I went in, I could see his face and his chest, though there were other areas that were covered up. He just looked like he was sleeping,” she said, tears in her eyes.
"I held his hand. It was almost like I felt like he was waiting for me.
"It's terrible to have to go to the morgue and say goodbye to the person that you were going to spend the rest of your life with.
"But at the same time, it was beautiful.”
Out of a total of 14 charges against the four parties on trial, all but three were dismissed or stayed — meaning they could potentially be resurrected within one year.
The judge found that the driver who ran over Chabot on the chilly afternoon of Nov. 15, 2011 had received no hands-on training from Taylor nor North 60 related to walk-around procedures, "designed to detect obvious problems with the vehicle as well as any hazards that would result from its movement,” Judge John Faulkner said.
He added that had the driver done a proper walk-around, he would have seen the jacks and torque wrench Chabot had been using but not Chabot himself.
"This would have alerted (the driver) to the fact that the work was not yet complete.”
All charges were related to alleged breaches of safety training and procedures set out in the territorial Occupational Health and Safety Act.
Taylor and Integra Tire face penalties of up to $150,000 each for the first-time offences, with the possibility of 12 months' imprisonment for Taylor, according to the Occupational Health and Safety Act.
North 60 may face steeper punishment, since second offences warrant up $300,000 in penalties.
In 2010, North 60 was fined $1,000 for failing to report a serious injury to a safety officer.
The sentencing date is set for April 2.
The first part of this two-part series and a lengthy letter from Lerch were published last Friday.
Comments (22)
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James W on Mar 24, 2014 at 5:49 am
After reading this article, I began to think about the last time I spent time with Denis. It was just two days before his accident. Denis, his partner and I drove to White Pass for some early season skiing.
I greatly miss my friend, and will remember the many kind and loving words he had to say about his partner, and his love for the outdoors.
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Monica Fritsch on Mar 21, 2014 at 8:17 am
I have many fond memories of Denis, as a friend and as a roommate! He was a very special man who worked hard to overcome so much. I am so happy that Denis had someone like you in his life to stand up for him even after he is gone! He was an amazing man, one who would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. I hope that one day you and his family find peace! Denis would be proud of you Kristy!
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DMZ on Mar 21, 2014 at 4:29 am
I admit I'm kind of uncomfortable with the use of the news section to further criticize a local business, which has already had their day in court and will be sentenced or in at least one case wasn't found liable, or guilty or whatever the term is for the situation. (I'm a little confused at this point.)
It's a shame the issue has to be confused with the anguish of Denis' partner and I do think it's a matter of questionable judgement on the Star's part. It's true, if they had a bona fide local lifestyle page it might not be out of place.
But there are a number of potshots taken at the companies in question, and actually in a lifestyle piece the editors might not find it appropriate -- the boundaries might be clearer.
I prefer the courts to follow their process about the liability or otherwise of companies. But I know I'm in the minority in Canada, never mind Whitehorse.
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Just the facts on Mar 19, 2014 at 10:32 am
Critical or questioning?
Additionally, I paid for the issue of the Star that this article was in, and I have the right to question.
What I don't like is when someone seems to be looking for public sympathy with what seems to be questionable "facts" in an article.
The title of this piece is clear, what is less clear is whether they were actually partners at the time of Denis' tragic death. As I had said earlier, the "facts" seem to be all over the map.
I have lots of sympathy for Denis, less so for others.
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yeah on Mar 19, 2014 at 6:53 am
Terry. I don't think it's petty. Simply just questioning it. I'm not disagreeing that she shouldn't be writing about it as it's a great way to vent, get some closure and move on. I'm wondering why she gets to write the articles from her own perspective (not everyone gets this). The Whitehorse Star has generally been news articles and this seems more like a lifestyle piece or editorial. Or maybe the Whitehorse Star is going in another direction and this is the first of many pieces like this. Then fine. I'm ok with that.
It's great that she gets to have this venting avenue. And it's great that she is bringing up OHS issues. But those should be written by done by the paper as editorials. They are just her opinions and views.
All I am saying is that it's not the typical Whitehorse Star article and am questioning the Whitehorse Star why it's in there.
Believe me, as someone who's gone through something like this, I would NEVER discredit their feelings in any way, shape or form. This is not personal to her at all.
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flyingfur on Mar 19, 2014 at 5:44 am
To "Just the facts" and "Yeah":
I guess I could go on and on about how cold-hearted and callous your comments are but instead I will remind you that this young man was killed on the job and that putting a human face to who this person is and how this happened, whether you want to blame him or not, helps prevent future injuries and fatalities of this kind. For that reason alone the article is worth far more than its space. You both should be ashamed or yourselves for taking issue with these articles and not having the forseeance to understand their importance.
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Terry Matts on Mar 19, 2014 at 4:52 am
"Just the facts” and "yeah…”
You both are critical of the place of this article in the newspaper but yet you seemed to think the rest of us would value reading your petty comments. How kind!
If you don't like what you're reading, keep moving. Clearly many of us enjoyed the follow up of a story that has brought up some serious OHS issues that affect us all. It serves as a reminder to be safe in the workplace because the consequences are great as this woman has described her loss.
And "yeah...", unless you are on the payroll, who are you to decide what the Star publishes?
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yeah... on Mar 19, 2014 at 4:44 am
Sandy--I am by no means shaming. That's great that this is her venting and it's allowed. I just don't think it's for the Whitehorse Star. Why not an online blog? In the days of internet and social media, I believe there are more avenues then a local newspaper.
I, too, have suffered a terrible loss in an accident that could have been prevented had proper procedures been taken...am I writing in the newspaper weekly about my sister being killed? Someone I knew everyday of my life? No.
There are places to vent. The newspaper could have done a feature on her and referred it to a blog post where people could CHOOSE to view it.
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Sandy on Mar 19, 2014 at 2:31 am
What i think is beautiful about this story is that a woman in pain of losing her love is sharing it with the world.
Everyone mourns in their own way and their own time. I've known Kristy and supported her since shortly after Denis died, and I know how important it has been for her to share her story of love and loss. In a society that shames people for grief, in a society that avoids talking about death and loss, in a society that believes death is optional, it is a very courageous thing to do to put your words out to the world to express something that is held so deeply in the heart. Having suffered the sudden and tragic death of my partner, I can say that it felt like ground breaking news every.single.moment.of.every.single.day for a really long time...longer than anyone who hasn't been thought it would ever think. Shaming Kristy for wanting her story shared in your community newspaper is harsh. Is this really how we relate to each other? Maybe we need to create the space for people to mourn in their own way without judgement - not to discredit them for expressing what they have lost. Part of healing grief is sharing it. Surely, a newspaper is a venue for that?!
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Just the facts on Mar 17, 2014 at 5:23 am
Besides the question of what is the point of this article, I can't believe the number of people absolving the deceased of any responsibility in this accident.
Having worked in the construction trades all my life, I have seen many accidents and near misses. Ultimately, we are all responsible for our own safety and well being. Simply passing this responsibility off to others, while convenient, is decidedly UNsafe.
There is no point rehashing the investigation, but there are many actions which all contributed to the fatality, and one of the main ones was the deceased crawling under a running vehicle.
That's something to learn from, don't leave your own safety in someone elses hands. Having a high degree of integrity towards personal safety is something that cannot be regulated, but is something the individual worker must be responsible for.
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yeah.. on Mar 17, 2014 at 1:21 am
I agree with "Just the facts". What is the point of these series? Many of us have gone through careless tragedies that could/should have been prevented but a newspaper series is not the way to tell a story. Imagine how those involved feel having this in their face weekly?
I thought this was a NEWS paper? Maybe a series should be elsewhere?
And this is not to discredit anything at all that happened--just saying that a series like this should not be in the Whitehorse Star.
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Lindsey Dobson on Mar 16, 2014 at 12:54 pm
Sounds like you had an amazing and adventurous relationship... I cannot imagine the horror that this has put you through. My sincerest condolences for the loss of the love of your life, a good man, gone way too young. What a disheartening story of workplace safety.
Regardless of the training the driver got from the workplace, doesn't obtaining a truck license come with extensive training of the importance of walk arounds? It's my understanding that walk arounds are supposed to be second nature when it comes to driving trucks. And what good are all these fines? If I were an employee at these companies, I'd be scared for my life. I'd want to know how they were going to prevent this from happening again. There seems to be no concern on the part of the companies or supervisors for safety. Sounds scary!
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Lynda Boutet on Mar 16, 2014 at 11:21 am
I met Denis by working with him in Sherbrooke, Québec, in 1996-1997 and he became one of my best friends. Joy, vitality, enthusiasm and hardworking described him well. I hope that the two companies involved will be receiving full charges on April 2nd. A such drama must be used to increase consciousness of all, especially people in the industry. I know Denis send us his best smile from where he is to soothe our pain and to remember the importance of vivre l'instant présent. I miss you my friend!
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Tanis Davey on Mar 16, 2014 at 11:08 am
Kristi, thank you for sharing this. I knew Denis when he helped me work on the hikes and bikes book in 2003. His energy was magical and he was one of the kindest people I have ever met. I feel incredibly sad and angry for you, Denis' friends and family, and for all those who have lost loved ones due to poor safety procedures. I hope you find the peace you need to move forward in a world that inspired Denis and gave him that large grin he always seemed to wear.
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Kathy and Rick Porath on Mar 16, 2014 at 5:31 am
It breaks our hearts to read this story, Kristy. It is more than unfortunate that your dear Denis had to be represented in this way and even more, it is a tragedy that his life had to be taken like this. The pictures you have posted of the two of you together are beautiful. We are very sorry that we didn't get the opportunity to meet Denis. We think of you often, Kristy and wish you all the best in your journey ahead. You have a special place in our hearts.... always. Hope to see you soon! With love, the Porath's xoxo
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Euna Kang on Mar 16, 2014 at 1:30 am
Kristy shared fun, loving stories about her relationship with Denis from the start with me. They were admired by all of us... how they developed and flourished their love and dedication to each other. The tragedy shook me and her friends all way to Edmonton. The life after that tragedy is not the same anymore. A strong, loving man's life is lost. Beautiful caring deep relationship won't be seen by us, friends. Visiting Kristy in Whitehorse will always feel so empty without him. I wish the case, media and all the buzz will fade soon and wish to see Kristy to her fun loving herself again. It is a hard, sad and unfair chapter of her life. Euna, friend from Edmonton
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Kristy Lerch on Mar 15, 2014 at 12:55 pm
It's hard when you do an interview like this to capture everything you want to say about someone, especially when you love that person. One thing that I want to add about Denis is how fair-minded and caring he was in our relationship. He put a high priority on communication- he would always say, we can resolve anything with communication. We didn't have a lot of differences to work through in our relationship, but when a conflict came up, these qualities in him really shone. I really loved this about him, and I admit sometimes I looked forward to the talks we had when we were resolving things because he always listened to me and was committed to working things out in a loving and respectful way. He of course didn't look forward to the T word and would be rolling his eyes at this, I am sure. I always loved him that much more though, after we had resolved things, for these reasons. Because he put such a high priority on communication, there was very little unsaid between us. This has made things much easier for me in coming to terms with his death. This was one of the most important parting gifts he gave to me.
There just wasn't room in the article to say this in so many words.
It's so nice to read your comments.
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Marliene Otto on Mar 15, 2014 at 12:04 pm
It is unthinkable that there was no accountability for the safety of this amazing young man. While I read that the driver had no training in safety procedures, common sense should tell any one to look around before driving away.
I wish I could have known him, Kristy. My heart aches for you.
Marliene Otto
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Just the facts on Mar 15, 2014 at 5:53 am
Beside the emotions at play in these articles, there seems to be a huge discrepancy in the "facts".
The period that they were a "couple" seems to be all over the map in the previous article and the letter.
What is the point of the series?
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Trena Irving on Mar 14, 2014 at 4:36 pm
Denis used to live at my Mom's house. He was a really nice person and I enjoyed talking to him when I would visit Mom, as I attended university in the Eastern Townships and frequented Sherbrooke often. My heart goes out to you Kristy. What a tragedy.
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Karen Lerch on Mar 14, 2014 at 1:42 pm
Kristy is a very talented and intelligent young woman who has survived this profound tragedy with courage and spiritual faith. Reaching this point has been a step by step mission by many of us who love her and wish to see her go on and flourish. This accident was so unnecessary. Denis was a man who gave so much of himself to so many people. You can never be prepared! So sad that a work place would be so cavalier in its protection of its best workers.
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Jody Studney on Mar 14, 2014 at 12:26 pm
It's hard to think of what to write when there are still so many raw emotions about Denis not being here. It still doesn't make sense and still hasn't entirely sunk in. I miss you so much Denis and wish we could turn back time and you could take a sick day (which you never did) and we would have had the last two and half years of more great memories. Sending love to all those that love you and miss you as well. Denis - You are in our hearts always. xxo