Whitehorse Daily Star

Teenager weeps upon hearing judge's verdict

In the early morning of Aug. 8, 2009, a 16-year-old girl Whitehorse girl shocked herself and anyone who knew her by stabbing her mother's live-in ex-boyfriend to death.

By Justine Davidson on March 30, 2011

In the early morning of Aug. 8, 2009, a 16-year-old girl Whitehorse girl shocked herself and anyone who knew her by stabbing her mother's live-in ex-boyfriend to death.

When neighbours awoke to the news, they were dumbfounded.

Rumours swirled about drugs and sexual abuse – people dreamed up the extreme circumstances that would make an otherwise normal teenager take another person's life.

As the days wore on, no one close to the case could understand what had happened to make her kill the man.

There was no evidence of sexual or physical abuse, the girl wasn't high on drugs or driven by a need for money. She seemed mentally sound and had no criminal record.

She was a pretty typical teenager, dealing with issues that many young people face.

She was upset about a recent breakup with her boyfriend. She and her best friend smoked a lot of pot, dabbled in Ecstasy and drank. She was sometimes bullied at school and got into a couple of fights with the kids who picked on her and her friends.

She held down a part-time job and got passing grades at school.

Her mom was an alcoholic who would usually go out for a few drinks after work, come home, drink some more and pass out on the couch. The house the family lived in was small and poorly maintained.

Most importantly, the girl hated sharing her home with her mother's middle-aged ex-boyfriend, who did little more than sit in his chair in the living room, smoking cigarettes and drinking.

He had been living with the family for about five years, and for most of that time was unemployed and contributed no money and little work to the household. Her mother bought him his beer and his cigarettes.

He was described as sickly and mean-spirited.

The girl's mother had stopped having a romantic relationship with the man years earlier, but every time she asked him to leave, he made an excuse or simply ignored her eviction notices.

He was passive aggressive, the mother said, and would twist people's words around to draw them into circular arguments.

"It's subtle so you kind of get sucked into it before you know where it's going,” the mother said of her boyfriend's habit of constantly picking at people's weak spots.

"He wouldn't call people names, it was more insidious than that,” she said. "I would define it as mentally or emotionally abusive.”

"He was always at the house, he made us feel like intruders,” the girl's brother said of the man . "He just sat around drinking beer all day.

"... He wasn't wanted there.”

But even her brother, who knew his little sister was depressed and hated the man they lived with, didn't believe his ears when the girl called him that morning and told him what she'd done. He told the court he figured she was hallucinating.

She was not. She had stabbed the man 11 times in the back and chest.

One of the knife thrusts went through his ribs and punctured a lung. He died on the floor in front of his chair, as the girl's mother, brother and a team of paramedics attempted to save him.

The girl turned herself in to police and told them she didn't really know what had happened.

After a week-long trial, held in December 2010, no one was any the wiser.

As Judge John Faulkner said today: "It is like reading a book with the final chapter missing.”

As the girl told police, a court-ordered psychiatrist and the judge, she couldn't remember actually stabbing the man.

She remembered him coming into the small kitchen where she was getting herself a glass of juice and feeling angry that he was invading her personal space, her "bubble” as she put it, then nothing.

"Him coming into the kitchen just crossed a line, I think,” she told the court when she took the stand during the trial. "... I just recall the turning around motion ... I don't recall getting or selecting a knife or hitting him.

"... The only thing I can recall (after that) is a picture ... of him on top of me. Not lying down, but like falling on me.”

The girl never denied stabbing the man, and pleaded guilty to manslaughter, claiming she did not mean to kill him.

The psychiatrist who assessed her after the fact told the court he believed she went into a "dissociative state” and was therefore not responsible for her actions.

"She went into a rage – and out of rage, she acted against the victim,” Dr. Kulwant Riar told the court.

Her rage was not the normal anger experienced by people all the time, he said, but a temporary disassociated state, meaning she had no awareness of her actions.

"That's how rage operates,” he said. "The person does not know what they are doing.”

In handing down his decision on the case today, Faulkner said he was not convinced by Riar's expert opinion because "there was no evidence of mental disorder or any previous psychotic event.”

But in the end, it was the unanswered questions which left the judge unable to convict the girl of murder.

"Guilty of manslaughter,” he ruled.

The girl, who all through the trial remained calm and unemotional, started crying. Her mother and father, long separated but sitting close as they awaited the verdict, hugged one another.

Outside the courtroom, she promised her temporary guardian she would be back at school by the fourth period.

Five months after her arrest, she was released into the care of an ex-police officer, and permitted to return to school. Since then, she has gone from barely passing to being an honour role student.

During the trial, she told the judge she wants to become a nurse, and at her sentencing hearing, the court will hear she has been accepted to university.

No date has been set for her sentencing hearing, which will have to wait for another psychiatric assessment.

The girl's identity is protected under the Youth Criminal Justice Act, which seeks to rehabilitate and reintegrate young offenders into their communities without the stigma of a criminal history.

Comments (21)

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Former Whitehorsian on Apr 8, 2011 at 9:38 am

Okay! As a person who has the educational background to recognize when someone truly has the capacity for violence or is truly beyond rational thought, I again reiterate the fact that certain people have a predisposition for violence. I have been one of those people who lived through emotional ridicule day after day, not for a few years, but for a full lifetime until I was an adult. Would I ever think of hurting much less killing someone. NO! If you act like a victim and everything bad can be blamed on someone else, that is where you will stay forever. All responsible people in life accept the wrong decisions they have made and start to make things right. People need to accept responsibility for themselves in order to be productive citizens. Period.

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Francias pillman on Apr 8, 2011 at 9:30 am

Hey Anna, thanks for calling us uneducated. I'm sorry, these same judges you speak so highly of are no better than you or me. Probably worse in some cases. You prove my point perfectly. Again other issues are blamed, so you try and justify what she did as somewhat expected. Why can't people take responsibility for their own actions? What I said above, the blame game is always played. This girl has no right to live her life when she chose to snuff out someone else's. These so called judges are far from how you portray them. They are honestly part of the problem. Serious crimes are given a slap on the wrist. They make our society less safe with their so called "educated decisions" But god forbid if someone is caught with some drugs. Again you people who continue to support people who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions are a scourge on our society. Again, get a life.

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Anna Kimms on Apr 8, 2011 at 4:17 am

Most adults, when having issues even abuse issues do not reach out to a social worker, other adult etc. So why would a child, raised by an alcoholic parent who has been taught no life skills reach out when she is between the ages of 10-15. At that age you only assume your parent(s) have your best interest at heart and that you are not a part of a dysfunctional home.

Children look to their immediate adults (parents) for like guidance and structure. If you are not given guidance or structure but less than human basic needs, (Example: food, water, shelter, love) you can not expect these children to have the same coping or mental capabilities of say you or I.

Of course no one here says killing someone is okay but thank God there are doctors and Judges with an educated perspective who DOES know what drives people to become who they have and to do the things that they have or the group of uneducated minds here would still be burning people at the stake!

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MjH on Apr 8, 2011 at 3:41 am

I fully agree with dmg

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Francias Pillman on Apr 7, 2011 at 5:10 pm

"I personally dont think she did anything wrong" What a sick comment. I will assume you are a family member or a friend of this murderer. Maybe one of your family members might get killed someday and hopefully people have the same hurtful attitude as yourself. Get a life.

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Michael Tillmann on Apr 7, 2011 at 9:07 am

damien lankow:

Stop judging? Why? While some problems in society result from intolerance, other problems result from a little too much tolerance. Specifically, tolerance of violence.

She killed someone. Without justification. Even if she was abused in some way, that didn't give her the right to stab someone a dozen times because he was standing closer than she liked. That's unacceptable and I do judge it and I encourage everyone else to judge it as well.

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dmg on Apr 7, 2011 at 12:37 am

This whole story is very sad right from the beginning. The mother of this girl soaked herself in alcohol rather than deal with the bizzare situation right in her own home, putting her children in a negative and unhealthy situation day after day for how many years? The children obviously coped with the situation by turning to drugs and alcohol also.But for them to carry on this cycle only made things worse.I am sure they could of reached out to an adult, teacher, social worker etc. who may have been able to intervene before things escalated to murder. I do feel that this girl has to pay the price for her crime, but so should the mother who left her children in such neglect and indifference that things ended up as they did.

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don johnston on Apr 5, 2011 at 11:52 am

I personally dont think she did anything wrong

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damien lankow on Apr 5, 2011 at 11:50 am

john jack is right. none of you have any idea what she was going through. stop judging.

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Thomas Brewer on Apr 5, 2011 at 8:57 am

@john jack... nice grammar .

Manslaughter is usually reserved for accidental deaths... being stabbed 11 times is far, far from accidental.

Maybe not murder one, but definitely stronger than manslaughter.

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has everyone lost their mind? on Apr 5, 2011 at 8:43 am

This girl was convicted of manslaughter. She will be sentenced, and she will pay for her crime - such as it was. The person who should really be in jail is her mother. Those of you who are saying she 'had no right' and that her actions were 'deplorable' must not have followed the case or even read the article. She was subjected to abuse - every day since she was 10 or 11 and it blew up in everyone's face. Sure, he didn't beat or molest her, but neglect, contempt, invasion of privacy etc. are all abuses that can eat away at a person until they snap. Case in point. This was not the result of a normal temper tantrum or teenage angst. This was a predictable result, and if her pathetic, useless mother had ever bothered to do her duty and care for this child, then it may not have happened.

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Just Moved back to the Yukon on Apr 5, 2011 at 3:53 am

I cannot believe that the same thing is going on in the Yukon, does it really change???? I've been gone for over 10 yrs and the same people walking around downtown, the same social issues around town...

This 16 year old girl took a life she had no right to take, because she is a 16 yr old teenage "girl" makes her no victim, we make ourselves victims if we allow issues to be there and not deal with them. Socitey in the Yukon needs to raise up and take responibilie of the actions and stop playing the helpless little soul who can't be held accountable for horrible crimes...Time will tell if this girl will be ever responsible and remorsful, she had zero right to invade someones life and take it because he moved into her "personal bubble" Time to grow little girl...

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johnjack on Apr 4, 2011 at 11:44 pm

Do you people know the facts or asumming your ideas. I didn't say it was a good or rite thing just know all the facts before making an opinion!!!

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Val on Apr 4, 2011 at 8:29 am

There is no excuse what she had done, she took anothers life and it was not up to her, if there were problems with the man, she should have gone to the cops before then. The only person is the Greater power who can take the life of one. In no event should another take anothers life. She will need to deal with her issues now rather than later. 16 or older, it's not up to another human being when another's life is up. Tough lession none the less.

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Andrew McGee on Apr 3, 2011 at 7:23 pm

John Jack...are you kidding me? Let's not lose sight of the fact this girl took another life. We were all 16 at one point and (presumably) didn't kill anyone. So, I agree with Jess - no sympathy for this girl. The man she killed was someone's child too.

No matter how much of her "personal bubble" was invaded, she had no right to do what she did. While she may not deserve to to behind bars for an extended period (read 15 yrs), she does need to be locked up and punished for her deplorable actions.

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Michael Tillmann on Apr 1, 2011 at 11:25 am

john jack:

I'm more interested in the victim's state of mind as he bled to death, rather than the killer's. I think too much emphasis is put on the killer's background and experience, and not enough on the victim.

The bottom line is: Someone is dead. She killed him. She had no good reason to. As for what hardships she had in her life.. that may be sad and all, but that doesn't change the fact that she's a criminal.

Hopefully though she will redeem herself and be a law abiding citizen from now on. Although, I don't think I'd feel comfortable having her working as a nurse for me.

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Former Whitehorsian on Apr 1, 2011 at 9:56 am

I have worked with teenagers for a very long time. Yes, they can at times be very impulsive, however I have more respect and understanding of them than many. All people at that age have tendancies. Someone who does not have violence or a predisposition to excuse the act of killing someone will not do it. (Also attributes to the excuses some people use for doing some things when they are drunk.Although alcohol will lower inhibitions it does not cross the line into seriously hurting someone if they do not have this attribute already in a personality.) Kids of this age know the difference between hurting someone and murder. In fact, if you work with kids, most know this long before 12. Stop making excuses and let people show responsibity for thier actions.

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Francias pillman on Apr 1, 2011 at 9:00 am

Here we go again. The mind of a 16 year old? I'm sorry, you fully understand what murder is. Can you people grow up and painting this killer as a victim? A man is dead, no matter if he was lazy. Welcome to the Yukon where no one takes responsibility for their actions, and there is always someone or something to blame. I'm glad you support murderers.

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Bedrock Billy on Apr 1, 2011 at 8:13 am

john jack: How about thinking what was going on in that man's mind while he was being stabbed to death - by a 16 year old girl.

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john jack on Apr 1, 2011 at 12:39 am

Jess Maybe you better think what that girl was going threw mentally before you judge. 16 year old mind!!!

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jess on Mar 30, 2011 at 7:45 am

No sympathy for you young girl. You took a mans life. No matter what kind of a man he was, that is no excuse.

You will serve your time and hopefully in the years to come, learn from your mistakes, take anger management, and come out a strong willed women, with hopefully some remorse for what you did.

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