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MOTHER AND SON – Madonna Joncas poses with her son, Cody Kelpin. Photo Courtesy Marina Lavidas

Teenager remembered as a caring, loyal friend

Cody Kelpin of Porter Creek died this week, at just 18 years old.

By Max Leighton on October 7, 2011

Cody Kelpin of Porter Creek died this week, at just 18 years old.

Kelpin crashed his motorcycle in Porter Creek on Monday afternoon.

He was pronounced dead on Wednesday evening in St. Paul's Hospital in Vancouver, surrounded by his parents, cousins and family friends.

His death happened suddenly and tragically.

At about 12:45 p.m. Monday, Kelpin was speeding down 12th Avenue in Porter Creek, "popping wheelies” and possibly, as friends suggest, racing a passing car.

Soon afterward, he lost control of his bike, slid across a patch of grass and was tossed to the pavement.

He landed in a woman's driveway, 80 metres away. His helmet lay nearby.

"He was basically dead on impact,” Kelpin's second cousin, Marina Lavidas told the Star this week. "When they found him, his heart had stopped. They brought him back.”

Kelpin was known to neighbours and city officials. His first major mishap was in September 2010 on a Porter Creek trail, when he demolished his bike in a collision with a city barricade. There were other accidents as well.

Kelpin was medevaced to Vancouver on Monday evening. Seventy-two hours and two examinations later, he was deemed brain dead.

It is difficult to imagine the loss the death of a child brings.

Kelpin was the only child of Madonna Joncas and Charlie Kelpin.

"Madonna is a server,” said Lavidas. "Every day, she'd wake up at 6 a.m. and make Cody lunch. She still did his laundry, at 18; that's how much she cared about him.”

Joncas and Kelpin stayed side-by-side with their son for three days before he died.

"She lost her baby, and she was the most amazing mother in the world,” said Lavidas. "They had a bond like you could never imagine.”

Before they left Whitehorse for Vancouver, Joncas made the family drive to the scene of the tragedy so she could see it one more time, said Lavidas.

After his family, Kelpin's death will likely be felt most by his friends.

Porter Creek kids spend the summers on quads and dirt bikes and the winters on snow machines. They are shared experiences that create a lasting friendship.

"I lived on Cedar Street and Tory lived out in MacPherson but he would ride out to see Cody,” said Curtis Harder, Kelpin's best friend.

"Scotty lived on Holly Hill and Mason lived down the street from me. We were the Porter Creek hooligans, basically,” he says laughing.

Harter remembers Kelpin as "a kid who was good at everything,” a natural athlete who could "fix anything with a motor.”

"He's a kid who would give you the shirt off his back,” says Harder. "He just liked to live on the edge, but he definitely cared about everyone else around him.”

Kelpin's friends speak of him with a kind of respect that borders on reverence.

"One time my friend had a four-wheeler which was buried in three feet of snow,” said Harder. "He just tied a rope to it, wrapped the rope around his arms and just leaned back and pulled it out. Our buddy was like, ‘How'd he do that?' and I said, ‘I don't know; the kid's a monster. It's just Cody.”

"He was pretty jacked,” said Tory Steele, another of Kelpin's closest friends. "He had big hands and he was generally just a big kid.”

"And his hands were never clean,” said Harder. "They were always black from working on something.”

Steele and Harder were among the few people to see Kelpin in Whitehorse General Hospital before the medevac.

Despite his history, neither boy expected the accident to take Kelpin's life.

"It's a surprise. I thought he'd pull through. He was a tough kid, so it's still setting in, but it's definitely a surprise because, like I said, it's not the first time he'd crashed,” said Steele.

"But it's not if you're going to crash, it's when you're going to crash,” added Harder. "Everyone knows that.”

The two said they will remember singing basement karaoke with Kelpin, night rides through the bush and canoeing together in Porter Creek ponds.

They laughed while trying to describe the group of them trying to sneak a neighbour's canoe down the street in the middle of the night.

"One thing that was good about hanging out with Cody was that he never drank or did drugs or anything,” he said. "I'll miss his adventures. He kept us busy and entertained and out of trouble.”

Both of the youth said they will continue to ride, adding that though they already wear safety equipment, they will continue to do so.

Kelpin has left more than just memories behind.

Harder said Kelpin was expecting a child with his girlfriend of four years.

"We are not sure if it's a boy or a girl,” said Harder. "She's hoping for a boy and wants to name it Cody. But if it's a girl, she'll name it Chloe, because that's what Cody wanted.”

The family also donated several of Kelpin's organs.

"His parents decided he would be an organ donor,” said Lavidas. "The only blessing in this situation is they were able to use his heart, and it will be given to someone else.

"He was only 18 and he didn't drink or do drugs, so he'll be running around again somewhere. His heart is still beating; he was able to give life,” she says.

Today, Lavidas and Joncas will place a wreath at the site of the accident.

A spiritual service was performed for Kelpin in his Vancouver hospital room, and the family is planning a public funeral for the coming week.

Comments (9)

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EleanorRigby on Oct 17, 2011 at 2:15 am

Let's "learn and move on"? I agree... It would have been nice if someone had "learned" when this happened...

http://www.yukon-news.com/news/19680/

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Madeleine Girard on Oct 15, 2011 at 6:55 pm

My heart and my prayers go to the family. Another sad story of an invincible child`s life ending tragically. Much love to all the parents of lost children of this world. Much love to the lost children of this world...

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Snapple on Oct 12, 2011 at 11:38 am

Such a terrible tragedy, shame on those who think he "got what he deserved for speeding around" such an awful thing to even think! I'm a pretty responsible rider and sometimes ...I'm also not. When you have a passion to ride and the need for speed..there's just nothing like jumping on your bike and tearing it up! It could happen to anyone. I've had some very close calls on sleds and my bike and thankfully I was ok. It just happens ...risk goes with riding as does driving a car...accidents happen and speeding or not, this young man didn't deserve to die. God bless you young man! Ride hard up there...I bet its dirt bike heaven up there! God bless his family and friends, stay strong!

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J Nelson Thornton on Oct 9, 2011 at 7:59 am

This has to be one of the most tragic accidents I have read in many Years. One never knows how much time we have or don't have, What a blessing to extend another life by donating organs. I am from Mississippi, USA, and live close to the Gulf of Mexico. I travel to your Territory yearly and have grown to love the area and the people. This story makes my heart sad, so full of emotions, and I can't even come close to the grief this family and community has dealt with, every day. This happen to my best friend when we were 17, and I don't think anyone ever will forget how blessed we were to have shared part of his life. I'm sure this family, friends and community will always remember and see him in everything they do. We all need to pray for this family during this time and in days to come. I know I will.

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Stan The Man on Oct 9, 2011 at 1:47 am

From what I have read,everyone has acknowledged what a terrible tragedy this is.

The victim hasnt been attacked...the behaviours of repeated reckless driving, poor bylaw enforcement, and lax parenting have.

Lets all learn from this and move on.

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wasyoungonce on Oct 7, 2011 at 4:40 pm

Thank you, Whitehorse Star, for printing an article celebrating this young man's life. His friends, girlfriend, family and school community are grieving and the previous articles with the cold, mean comments have no place. My suggestion: people should attack the issue, not the individual. If you don't like kids going fast on dirtbikes, see the City and the government to change it (don't say death is a fair sentence for youthful recklessness; death is the horror rearing its ugly head at us ALL). I'm not a fan of dirtbikes either, but I'm not an insensitive "jackass" (to quote some other unintelligent comment made by a heartless author.) RIP Cody; your memorial is beautiful, your presence missed by so many.

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Ken Putnam on Oct 7, 2011 at 1:12 pm

Cody was 18 when he died. 18! Far to young to die. From what I have read he was a great kid who loved bikes and loved living in the fast lane. His family and friends certainly did not deserve the ignorant, insensitive and stupid comments by clearly hateful persons printed in previous blogs. My heart goes out to Madonna, I feel her pain. My wife and I know her pain. To Cody's friends, stay strong for your buddy, live your lives well. He is with you all.

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Frank Silva on Oct 7, 2011 at 9:59 am

Such a tragic story but what a wonderful choice by the family to donate Cody's organs. Cody's death means life for others, what a great legacy for this young man.

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t lavallee on Oct 7, 2011 at 9:48 am

I didn't know Cody but he sure sounds like he was a nice kid, he didn't know me or me him I am am his great aunt, My husband is Madonna uncle. I feel for Madonna, she just buried her mother less then a month ago and now her son. I sure hope she is strong and has good family and friends. That's got to be the worst thing to lose one of your children god bless and rip Cody.

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