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Residential schools’ harm resonates to this day

The bulk of harm residential schools inflicted on First Nation children happened more than 40 years ago, but it still resonates across the country today.

By Whitehorse Star on January 21, 2016

The bulk of harm residential schools inflicted on First Nation children happened more than 40 years ago, but it still resonates across the country today.

In fact, it’s getting worse, says Rupert Ross, a former assistant Crown prosecutor from Kenora, Ont.

Ross will visit Whitehorse and Carcross next week to take part in workshops alongside two leading experts, Dr. Lee Brown and Tonya Gomes, on the psychological damages done by residential schools.

The sessions will also examine what can be done to stop cycles of violence and abuses the schools have created.

On top of depriving them of their culture, taking them away from their families and inflicting them with severe abuses, the residential schools created generations of First Nation men and women unable to express their emotions.

“If you think of little children in residential schools, no one wanted to hear them talk about anything,” Ross said in an interview Wednesday.

Being deprived of that experience from age three to 16 carries into adulthood.

“That means you’re just bottling up everything as an adult,” he said.

“It just grows inside you until, for many people, it explodes in acts of violence.”

Ross would know – he prosecuted cases in remote First Nation communities in northwestern Ontario for two decades.

He worked more than 20 homicide cases, many characterized by a sudden explosion of anger from the offenders.

“It was towards the end of my career that I began to see the violence I was dealing with all the time came almost directly from residential school experiences 50 years before,” he said.

The last major case he worked on involved two teenagers who beat up a young adult.

“They beat his head in, stomped him on the head and dragged his body outside under some boards,” Ross remembered.

The two teenagers then went on with their day, as if nothing had happened.

Even the witnesses who testified admitted they didn’t pay much attention to the beating.

“How can children be put in a position when they don’t feel anything about it?” Ross asked.

While he worked on creating diversion programs within the justice system for young people, he described these as minors.

“I’m not sure the justice system is the place to turn things around,” he said.

“It can’t be the agency that brings health back.”

What can bring health back are programs aimed at dealing with the psychological trauma of residential schools, he said.

That trauma continues to affect First Nation communities because it changed the way parents raise their children – for example, on how to deal with their emotions, Ross said.

One of the other forms of psychological damage was learned helplessness.

“As a child, you are never given an opportunity to try things on your own, to fail, then to recover,” he explained.

“It makes people unable to do virtually anything.”

Dealing with these traumas is possible, and Ross experienced it firsthand.

“To see adults stuck with this (emotional) numbing learn that they are more than that, that they can control their emotion, it’s absolutely wonderful,” he said.

First Nation societies were very healthy up to colonization, he noted, as emotional well-being was an integral part of what was defined as “healthy” in many First Nation cultures.

Change is possible, but that means investments by the government in programs that have a proven track record, he said.

“It’s gonna cost CTFN (Carcross/Tagish First Nation) a bit of money to fly me and keep me here for a week,” he said.

“Where are they supposed to find the money?”

Ending cycles of violence also involves educating people, especially police officers.

“A lot of work needs to be done so young police officers don’t get sent cold in communities,” he said.

“They do so much harm out of ignorance.”

While it’s not the case in every community, Ross noted, he has seen a lot of that across Canada.

“They’re going in like commandos, they’re not prompting respect for police by First Nation (people),” he said.

“They come in like the enemy and leave like the enemy.”

A CTFN citizen invited Ross to come to the territory.

Upon learning that, the First Nation also invited Brown and Gomes to talk about health, education, justice and trauma.

“These are issues that affect our community and other communities and individuals,” CTFN Chief Danny Cresswell, Kha Shade Heni in Tlingit, said in an email to the Star.

“Leadership at all levels know the value of healthier communities and of individuals seeking knowledge and having dialogue amongst themselves on these issues.”

The first workshop, “Exploring the psychological damage of residential schools”, will be held from 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. next Tuesday at the Kwanlin Dün Cultural Centre,.

The workshop will be open to anybody. The admission fee is $75, but organizers said the fee could be waived if a person can’t afford it.

The other workshops will be held from Wednesday to Friday at the CTFN capacity building in Carcross.

For more information, contact Beverly Sembsmoen; beverly.sembsmoen@ctfn.ca

Comments (13)

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Celtic Apache on Jan 26, 2016 at 7:12 pm

Thank you "fair and balanced' for putting your negative thumbprint on my comment.
There is no light without darkness, ask Crow. That's the problem isn't it, the European tried to separate the light from the dark and split the world. God made man in his own image (light and dark), the White man tried to make the Red man in his own image, white, playing at God, and in the process split the world, that's why there's so much conflict and inner turmoil. That's why the Potlatch is a great healing ceremony it brings the opposites into balance and restores the original wholeness. Thank God, for by the blessing of First Nations I'm Red and White and fairly balanced.

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BalancedAndFair on Jan 26, 2016 at 12:52 pm

Celtic Apache - quite a moving little eulogy. Indeed , some FN's individuals have inner beauty and are led by a star. Sadly, a great many more have inner turmoil !

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Celtic Apache on Jan 25, 2016 at 6:20 pm

FN gave me some of the most profound and beautiful experiences of my life. Elders gave me the secret to my true identity. They gave me healing, protection, and their wisdom and power. The name they gave me, and the traditional adoption, opened doors to FN from NWT to the borders of Mexico. All of this was freely given, without my asking or looking. In all this I see the hand of God. And in my dreams I have seen the resurrection and re-birth of the spirit of FN. I am an immigrant from the land that brought Empire into the lives of the Red Man. I can truly say Inside and Out I have lived a Red and White destiny. Your wound is the doorway to spiritual power Thank God for the Red Man.

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Groucho d' North on Jan 23, 2016 at 10:08 am

I am encouraged by the evolution of public commentary regarding the residential schools and how those who lived through it are finding their voices, and that not all the voices are saying the same things. Like most issues, there is a range of experiences and perspectives and all are important to understand. I suspect that many are still having a tough time talking about their first hand experiences, either as an attendee to residential schools or as a descendant of somebody who was.
As stated below, for some it is an opportunity to seek a pound of monetary flesh for the wrongs that were committed in the name of God and the government of the day, but money is not the magic elixir to make all the bad feelings go away, and until these issues are not regurgitated for the purposes of creating guilt among the non-native population, I doubt there will be any further progress in how indigenous people move forward in the modern world.
I am especially impressed by those like JC who have risen above all the negativity and are guided by what they know in their hearts is right and wrong, and how they conduct their lives accordingly. I hope these people are given opportunity to share their perspectives with those who need to hear them. There is still a personal choice to be made: listen, learn and heal - or keep picking at scabs to wallow in your sorrow.

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Duane Gastant' Aucoin on Jan 22, 2016 at 4:02 pm

The Truth & Reconciliation Final Report showed that the vast majority of Residential School Survivors had a traumatic experience there and that this was passed down to their children and then to their children & so on. This wasn't because we thought it was "OK" but because this is all we knew. It's our unhealthy "normal". For the very few who say it was a positive experience or those who don't come from an entire society dealing with generations of trauma...please consider yourself very lucky! But please don't think that gives you the right to tell us who aren't as lucky to " just get over it!" If anything it gives you a duty to help us by trying to understand us & our different experiences and helping us where you can instead of judging us.

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Rosa D. on Jan 22, 2016 at 3:21 pm

My father was a brutal man, as every scar on my face and body will attest to. My mother a manic depressive compulsive slapper. Violence was unrelenting, as a child I was afraid all the time. Even as a child I knew it wasn't right. And so did my two sisters.

Today, my 5 children are grown, happy, well educated and employed with families of their own. I am sorry that Duane thought it was ok to abuse his family. I always knew it was not ok, and part of the reason my children have succeeded was because my childhood made me determined to protect and guide them, love and cherish them. My family is everything to me. What happened to me was not going to happen to them.

My story is the more common one I think, that people suffer, and determine it will not continue, I wanted to be happy, I wanted a life free of fear and brutality.

Those that suffer and determine to carry it around like a testimonial to the unfairness of life, that want to perpetuate it and keep it going I think are the minority. I wish them well, but from experience, I will tell you, that no matter what it was, only you can make change for yourself. No one can do it for you. We always have a choice.

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steve on Jan 22, 2016 at 12:38 pm

First, what makes me sick is so many are trying to cash in on the RS problem which is unacceptable. It says a lot about their character.

Second, I am sure for a lot of those people who went through the RS system there was the lucky ones and unlucky ones. To say it has not done considerable damage to the FN community is sticking your head in the sand. That is not to say it is the silver bullet that is affecting FN communities. There are many other factors that need to be addressed.

For those of you who suck it up and get on with it, I suggest you get down on your knees and thank god you did not go through it or had your children taken away and you were powerless to stop them. Think about that for one moment how would you have felt and then your kids coming home and are talking a different language, telling their parents how bad their culture is, destroying families and communities, etc.

What is needed is a balanced approach looking at RS affects and what other factors are affecting the FN communities that are not caused by RS.
Yes I have had family go through the RS system and our family has lost a lot of family members because of that abuse.

Have people in the 21st century had a lobotomy when it comes to being compassionate, understanding and wanting to work together to address the issue? While I have a problem with leaches and there are many trying to make a quick buck off the RS issue, are we all so greedy for money to not realize as a community we sink or swim together?

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Take the Workshop on Jan 22, 2016 at 10:35 am

Judging by some of the comments on this story, there is a real lack of what residential school was and its ongoing effects. I would suggest that a few of you take the free workshop!

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jc on Jan 21, 2016 at 9:36 pm

I and my 6 siblings spent 3 years in a RS in northern Ontario 70 years ago and it didn't harm any of us. We all grew up crime free with a healthy moral and positive perspective on life, contributing to our families, country and society. There was no sex or physical abuse. I could spend much time telling the truth about our experiences, but I would be labeled a racist. But I really don't care anymore. It's time to take personal responsibility for oneself and contribute to society. I think lawyers and politicians are most at fault here trying to keep this money making scam alive. Residential schools are not the reason FN represent a majority of the inmate population of our Correctional facility here. There are other reasons. But nobody has the B@!!s to investigate it as long as the RS thing is still paying off.

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TheRevenant on Jan 21, 2016 at 4:30 pm

Sigh .... dreadful as it was , it is not at all similar to the real cultural genocides of the Twentieth Century ( anti-semitism in Europe, Pol Pot's desire for the return to Year Zero, Stalin's pogroms etc. ) . Sad to say , but in a great many cases it is ( as someone else here stated ) a 'get out of jail free card' for serious offenders. Some of whom were not even born when the last school closed down. If some of these serial offenders and work-shy alcoholics expect us to buy their sob-stories of historical abuse at the hands of the White Man, then they need to grow up and get on with it. Harsh, but fair, in most cases.

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Duane Gastant' Aucoin on Jan 21, 2016 at 3:59 pm

The inter-generational effects of Residential School can't be fixed overnight as we are dealing with many generations of unresolved trauma. My mother was a survivor of the Lower Post Residential School & she brought into her family all the trauma & abuse she suffered there. That's what she was brainwashed to do & that's what she thought was "normal". So I endured my own Lower Post growing up & exhibit all the same symptoms of those survivors of Residential School. I then put my children & family through their own Lower Post...because that's what I thought was " normal". & so round & round the cycle of abuse goes! & the ever growing trauma snowball rolls down the hill taking more victims with it.
The government & church's poured much money & resources into starting this cycle so they have a moral & legal duty to help fix it.
But, we too have a moral duty to do our best to break this cycle ourselves. Personally by beginning the walk down the healing path & unlearning all the garbage that's been ingrained into us.
Collectively we also need to support each other on this healng journey as many communities such as CTFN is doing & many other such as my own Teslin.
This will take much time & resources to heal the generations but if we don't start now this problem will never go away! & that will hurt everyone! Only by everyone working together will we finally heal from Residential School & finally be able to put it behind us & move on!
Gunalcheesh/merci/thank you!

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Bill on Jan 21, 2016 at 3:55 pm

"Getting over it" is something you do when you spill red wine on your white carpet. When as a people, you have experienced several generations of a system designed to wipe your culture off the planet by brainwashing your youth all the while subjecting them to sexual abuse and inhumane experiments, getting over it isn't as easy as a snap of the fingers or a douse of club soda...

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June Jackson on Jan 21, 2016 at 3:34 pm

The handwriting is on the wall so to speak.. 'we' are going to be paying for the next 10,000 years or so..

While I grieve that this happened; at some point people have to move on. Terrible things happen. Period. World War 2 extermination of Jews surely left its mark on the world, but people moved on. Today it's ISIS.. As for the example of 2 teenagers who killed a young adult, even if you can't feel it's wrong, you can know it's wrong. A baby doesn't know why it can't put its fingers in the electrical socket, but it learns pretty fast that it's in big trouble if it does that. What is Mr. Ross implying?

What I see today is people using residential school as a get out of jail free card. I am not denying that this was a national tragedy, but I am denying the implication that it has to go on for generation after generation. After all his chit chat Mr. Ross finally gets to the point... where are they supposed to find the money? Anyone have a guess?

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