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VICTIM FONDLY REMEMBERED – Lillian Hyslop (left) is seen here with her mother-in-law, Carol Hyslop, at the Wentworth Recreation Centre in Nova Scotia in the spring 2018. Inset Lisa Triggs
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VICTIM FONDLY REMEMBERED – Lillian Hyslop (left) is seen here with her mother-in-law, Carol Hyslop, at the Wentworth Recreation Centre in Nova Scotia in the spring 2018. Inset Lisa Triggs
Nova Scotia shooting victim Lillian Hyslop is being remembered as a kind, compassionate and hard-working Yukon resident of more than 30 years.
Nova Scotia shooting victim Lillian Hyslop is being remembered as a kind, compassionate and hard-working Yukon resident of more than 30 years.
“Her nature, her compassion, her gentleness, her spirit were just so good,” Lisa Triggs told the Star today.
“She was just a gentle person, and this not the end I would have wished for anyone like Lillian.
“There was nothing violent about her nature; she was always kind, she could deal with any situation.”
Triggs, a long-time friend of Hyslop, remembers her as a hard worker, active in the dog mushing community and famous for her annual Christmas cookie exchanges.
Hyslop lived in the Yukon with her husband, Mike, from the 1980s to the 2010s, before moving to the Wentworth Valley in Nova Scotia.
“They were pretty excited about going to Nova Scotia because her husband had inherited the land, and I guess they built their dream home there,” Edna Knight, another close friend of Hyslop’s, told the Star.
While living in the Yukon, Hyslop worked several high-pressure jobs at Whitehorse General Hospital and the insured health services office for the Yukon government.
She sang alto in the community choir and raised sled dogs with her husband at their property in Grizzly Valley in the 1980s and ’90s, before eventually moving to a house in town.
Both Knight and Triggs have fond memories of gathering at Hyslop’s home every Christmas season.
“She would invite all these people to her house, and her house looked so beautiful,” Knight said, remembering Hyslop’s enthusiasm for elaborate Christmas decorations and providing ample supplies of hors d’oeuvres.
“She had a big smile on her face when people all got there, and saw them all enjoying themselves; she sat back and took it all in.”
Triggs remembers the Christmas gatherings as the one time every year when their social circle would gather with their children to catch up.
“It was us getting together as women … it was important, because it helped us etch out a time for just ourselves and our girlfriends,” Triggs said.
She remembers Hyslop as a gatherer of people and a devoted friend with an infallibly calm demeanor.
“She would walk into a room and literally, Lillian would scan the room and right away from across the room she’ll smile at you and make you feel like you’re the only person in that room. I think her nature is just what made her an exceptional soul.”
Hyslop and her husband were well-known in the world of dog mushing.
Hyslop’s husband, Mike, was a former Yukon Quest office manager and volunteer, and also ran the Quest in 1998.
One of Triggs’ fondest memories of Hyslop comes from a dog mushing lesson she hosted with Mike in the early 1990s. Triggs said she attended the lesson with her mother, who was Mike’s and Lillian’s neighbour in Grizzly Valley.
“I was amazed with (Lillian’s) natural ease with animals, with people … she would give you the lesson of how to run the sled with calm and grace. She was always eager to pass along whatever she knew,” Triggs said.
Hyslop spent many years working in health services. Yukon Senator Pat Duncan was Hyslop’s colleague at the insured health office, and remembers her as a dedicated public servant.
“She was very, very hard-working,” Duncan told the Star Tuesday afternoon.
“She’s very much a public servant … she was very conscious of taxpayers’ dollars.”
She said Hyslop was an avid walker and would often leave the office for a stroll during her lunch break.
Since Hyslop’s sudden passing last weekend, Duncan said, the description of her walking every day in Nova Scotia reminded her of that time working at insured health.
“She had a very stressful job, and I remember her walking at lunch and making that a habit.”
Knight, who met Hyslop while volunteering for the Quest, recalled her as someone well-suited to the stresses of public health because she was tranquil, quiet and well-organized.
“She was in the right job for it, and I think because she has a calming personality; that helped a lot,” Knight said.
“She was easy to talk to, she really listened to your conversation and really contributed to it too, so you felt really at ease talking to her…. I love her, and I’m so sorry.”
Duncan, Knight and Triggs all expressed their sorrow and condolences to Hyslop’s family.
Lillian is survived by her son, Chas Hyslop.
Knight told the Star that Chas flew to Nova Scotia earlier this week to be with his father.
Hyslop was shot dead while she was out for a walk early last Sunday near Wentworth Provincial Park, regional and national media organizations have reported.
“A telephone tree of locals had already started calling regular walkers in the area to warn them to stay off the roads,” the Halifax Chronicle-Herald has reported.
“But that warning came too late for Hyslop, whose husband, Mike, picked up the phone to say his wife had already left for her walk,” the paper reported.
“So he went to go find her but got stopped by the police and asked what she was wearing and then they told him (of his wife’s death),” resident Debi Atkinson, who knew Lillian, told the newspaper.
A fire official confirmed that Hyslop had died at the scene.
Hyslop was a “down-to-Earth” fit woman who attended some social events and was friendly with everyone, Atkinson told the Chronicle-Herald.
“To me, it was just 100-per-cent random that she was walking on the road and she had a safety vest on.”
David Matthews told the Halifax newspaper he and his wife, Heather, ran into Hyslop last Saturday during their regular walk.
“We always talked to Lillian,” he told the Chronicle-Herald.
“She was an awful nice lady. We chatted about the weather or the COVID-19.
“She’d only been in the area for three or four years, so we didn’t really know her all that well, but we knew her enough to know she was a fine person. Always friendly, always nice, always sociable.”
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Philip on Nov 8, 2022 at 8:56 am
I lived in Whitehorse for a year with my son Jacob ten years ago. The Yukon is a beautiful place. In the nineties I lived in Yellowknife for five years with two of my older sons, and my stepson Michael who was older. I talked him into joining the RCMP after he learned his birth father was Mikmaq. Michael is a Seargent now.
All this tragedy could have been prevented if the court orders against the killer had been carried out. Over a 20 year period of threats and abuse toward his own family, clients, etc.
Once I removed this asshole (at the request of the owner) from a bar in downtown Dartmouth. I am a former bodyguard. He was a sick man who was not allowed to own weapons or buy ammunition. Who let this happen? How could a sick man who hated his entire family in New Brunswick kill so many good Nova Scotians? Never say his name. But please say where he was from.
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Linda Glass on Apr 29, 2020 at 1:55 pm
Dear Mike and Chas, I am very sorry for your loss. Love and care to you both on your healing journey.
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Marly Humby on Apr 29, 2020 at 4:01 am
So sorry for your loss. RIP Lillian fly high with the angels . Condolences Mike and Chas. She sounds like a wonderful lady. Hugs and prayers sent your way.❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Mary Morrison on Apr 28, 2020 at 1:34 pm
She sounded like an amazing woman. Please hold onto your fond memories of her and so very sorry for your loss.
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Jocelyn Gouchie on Apr 28, 2020 at 12:41 pm
My sincere condolences to your family during this difficult time . Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers ❤️
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Linda Ross on Apr 28, 2020 at 10:39 am
What a beautiful tribute to Lillian! As an outsider I grieve her tragic death and pray for peace and healing for her husband, son and friends.
It doesn't make family and friends feel any better to hear criticism of the RCMP about the lack of a public alert. I'm sure this will be addressed in the future but the thought of it only brings pain to those grieving. I hope people will be more sensitive and this site will remove any further remarks of that nature.
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Cecilia Farr on Apr 28, 2020 at 9:36 am
I am so sorry for your Loss......my deepest Condolences
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Alice and Stuart Purser on Apr 24, 2020 at 5:25 pm
Our hearts hurt for you and your family, Mike.
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Joy Baetz (Sadler) on Apr 24, 2020 at 5:05 pm
My deepest sympathy to Mike and Chas. I trained with Lillian at nursing school. She was a very lovely lady and I am truly saddened by her loss. Thoughts and prayers. Joy Baetz
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Lynne Fellowes on Apr 24, 2020 at 10:52 am
Mike and Chas,
Our sincere condolences at this time. We have fond memories of our visit to your home in Whitehorse.
Lynne, Dan and Holly
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Philip Combs on Apr 24, 2020 at 5:37 am
As former Yukoners we live relatively close to where this happened, easy driving distance if the killer had happened to come our way. We had no inkling any of this was going on until Sunday afternoon when we went online and saw what limited news there was about it. We had woken up Sunday morning and gone about our Coronavirus restricted day as normal, my wife walked our dogs and we spent a large portion of our day out in the open in our yard completely oblivious to any danger just as the other people who were killed that morning were.
That is why people here are so upset about the lack of warning, we weren't told by any agency that there was any danger at all and we too could just as easily have been killed because of that. It would be like Whitehorse residents finding out at 2 pm from a news story that someone had been going around shooting people since the night before. It's not acceptable and we want the authorities to have to answer and be held accountable. There's a province wide cell phone emergency alert system which has been used several times recently for warnings not nearly as critical as this one, why did the police only rely on Twitter?
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Donna on Apr 23, 2020 at 5:07 pm
I don’t see the value in blaming the RCMP.
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Nova Scotia Resident on Apr 23, 2020 at 3:41 pm
If the RCMP brass in Nova Scotia had done their jobs and issued a warning to the (non Twitter using) public this lady as well as others that were killed last Sunday morning would in all likelihood still be alive today.
Lawsuits together with a national inquiry into the failures of RCMP management that day will hopefully help bring some closure to us Nova Scotians who are left reeling and wondering why so many of our family members had to die needlessly last weekend. Why weren’t we told there was a active shooter on the loose for 13.5 hours? Why weren’t we warned? Why wasn’t the province wide cell phone emergency warning system activated? Why did the Royal Canadian Mounted Police force system fail so badly?
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Brian and May Gudmundson on Apr 22, 2020 at 9:43 pm
Lots of great memories. Hugs and prayers to Mike and Chas. The Yukon remembers you with gratitude.
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Pauline Stonehouse on Apr 22, 2020 at 9:09 pm
Michael and Chas. Sincere condolences from our family. Thinking of you through this tragic time. Pauline, Bill, Meghan and Nolan.
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Delores Smith on Apr 22, 2020 at 4:02 pm
I am deeply saddened by this news. Lillian was one of the most optimistic friendly people I knew, Mike as well. The welcome mat was always out for visitors, especially for dog enthusiasts.